As usual, I would like to look at this from a rather "cold" context. (As otherwise, it tends to get rather heated!!) I'll leave the politics out of this one and stick to education.
Just like mixing chemicals, we can only know the outcome when we know the details of the individuals components and what makes them tick. So in a similar fashion, I would like to look at the 3 major races in Malaysia, what their likes and dislikes are, then look at common likes and dislikes with the other communities and finally, how do we put it all together and have a dynamic, progressive mix without explosions and bad reactions to move to a MALAYSIAN IDENTITY.
Hope you join me for the ride and feel free to add anything I may have overlooked. Please do NOT take this exercise as stereotyping a particular race or racial profiling but more of a "general" view and perception to better understand integration.
Let us begin with:THE MALAYS
This is a society which is very much rooted to religion and "adat" or culture that forms their basis of everyday life. Respect is of primary important. Obedience is another strong trait. A community that has had it "easy" (You can read the "Malay Dilemma - Tun Dr M" to better understand this.) for a long long time. A community that is rather contented with what GOD and government provides and the drive to strive for more is lacking considerably.Likes:
1. The Malay language. - The majority would consider speaking anything else among Malays as rude.2. Islamic rules/law. - Obeying the rules of the Quran/Hadith is mandatory to most.3. Food. - HALAL it is. Large variety and the more of it, the better.
4. Socialising. - The community enjoys large occasions with song and dance, i.e. Kenduri, Open house, etc.
5. Malay humour and entertainment. - A slap-stick, 3 stooges type of humour combined with the likes of Akademi Fantasia gives rise to entertainment that's vastly different from what the rest of the world enjoys. The reason I've listed this seperately is that the other communities seem to sometimes have problems with this brand of humour and entertainment.
Dislikes:
1. Other languages. - Although this may be changing, (Can't really verify) finding Malays that speak Tamil, Chinese or any other language or dialect that helps them understand other communities is rare. (English is taught in school and is mandatory so I won't bother with that.)2. Demanding jobs. - Only a small number of Malays are willing to push to their full potential and become high achievers.
3. Non muslim values. - Consumption of Pork and alcohol by the other communities is a primary dislike. The dog is another "islamic" issue that is disliked. Education on other religions are frown upon.
4. Obeying simple traffic laws. - Use of helmets, obeying traffic lights, etc.
THE CHINESE
This a community that throughout history has been through the worst and survived. They have weathered the most demanding rulers, torture and hardship before they got to our shores. This community stops at nothing to get what they want. Money is GOD or almost GOD in their culture. Their business sense is sharp and sometimes perceived as ruthless.Likes:
1. Money. - This is their main driver. Enough said.2. Education. - They strongly believe that this is the key to success. The uneducated will strive to educate the next generation.
3. Chinese culture and language. - Since they have a long history of civilisation behind them, pride of their origins run strong and deep.4. Food. - Their food is very much a part of their culture and history. (i.e. The wedding tea-ceremony, funeral dinners, food for the ancestors and ghost, etc.)
5. Socialising. - Involves large amount of food and drink. (Of the non-halal kind.) The Kareoke culture (And the women that go with it) is also largely their thing in Malaysia although it is catching on with the rest.6. Gambling. - Luck is also traditionally a chinese phenomenon.
Dislikes:
1. Other races. - Sad truth but a community that is so proud of who they are and what they have achieved, tend to be this way and this has been true throughout history with most strong communities.2. Losing. - This can be physical or just the "losing face" aspect of it.
3. Unproductiveness. - Relaxing, holidays, sitting back and watching a sunset, etc, etc, all fall under this category. ("This time can be spent making more money!!" is the general sentiment.) The "Bumiputra" status is also considered here for them.4. Social etiquette. - They can't really be bothered with talking softly, eating quietly, not making a mess at dinner, etc. (Can be quite unnerving to the non-Chinese.)
5. Obeying simple traffic laws.
THE INDIANS
This community arrived in large numbers during the British era. Mostly uneducated and unskillled labourers, brought into the country to work the plantations. Predominantly from South India, they were Tamil speaking and highly rooted to the caste systems from their homeland. Today, they are the most backward community in Malaysia in terms of economics and education. (Although they seem to be the largest "English as 1st language" speaking community.)Likes:
1. Tamil entertainment. - Songs, movies, Sun TV, etc, etc, take a major share of their time.2. Tamil language. - The passion for this language is sometimes mind blowing.
3. Food. - South Indian food has become part and parcel of Malaysian life.4. Religion - They are extremely passionate Hindus, Christians and muslims. But as studies have shown that the belief in religion is inversely preportionate to education, this therefore could be the reason.5. Socialising & Drink - Vast majority of pubs, bars, etc thrive on Indian customers.
Dislikes:
1. Poverty. - They don't like being poor but find it hard to get out of this.
2. Malay "bumiputra" status. - Strong feeling of "being left behind and nobody cares". (2nd class citizen feeling.)
3. Being associated with crime. - Indian have been branded thugs and gangsters.
4. Obeying simple traffic laws.
And there you have it!!! The things in common:
1. FOOD2. SOCIALISING
3. DISREGARD FOR TRAFFIC LAWS
We love to eat and drink and we love socialising .And we're ALL horrible drivers!!! We don't have a common language we all love to use, don't feel the same way about education, don't feel we are equal human beings and generally get along but don't really like each other for deep rooted reasons such as religious differences, social status and just a lot of history of "bad blood".
So...what do we do now?????
Well, let me give a few suggestions based on the above:
1. The Malays need to relax a little on this non-halal issue and we'll be able to enjoy a Malaysian food experience and be able to socialize as a group of Malaysians better.
2. The Chinese and Indians need to lose this "country of origin" identity and absorb the Malaysian Identity.
3. Think of GOD but please please do what is GOOD. (This includes obeying traffic laws!!!!)
4. Forget the "sensitivity" issue and ask cross cultural questions. (Why Hindus got so many gods? Why Muslims don't eat pork? Why Chinese burn massive things at funerals?? etc, etc)
5. Give and take respect. But do demand it when it fails to come.
As I've said before, this is just my innocent view on my friends around me and how we can once again become what were back in the old days.
Feel free to comment.
4 comments:
Malays who like to drink - more than one seen at Broadwalk.
Chinese who like to take thing easy - more than one seen at Broadwalk.
Indian - who doesn't drink. More than one seen at Broadwalk.
Won't name names here . . . hee hee!
Haiyo!!!..Broadwalk had NO integration problems la.....unless you're an ManU fan!!! hahahahahaha!!
bro this is a piece about tamils i got from the net..
explains why indians have an affinity towards english...
Both under the British and in independent India the Tamils have had a somewhat privileged position, since they were much sought after as labour, partly because the standard of education and knowledge of English have been to some extent higher [12][8] than elsewhere in India and consequently Tamils have secured a large share of appointments in government service and education.[12] Perhaps because of this, Tamil linguistic feelings had never turned against English.[12] As Tamils saw English not as a threat, but a tool for advancement and protection of their interest, replacing English with Tamil even as a suggestion provoked violently adverse reactions,[12][8] in particular, amongst students. Thus introduction of Hindi as a national language was seen as direct measure of the North to dominate the South culturally, economically, and politically. For them the use of English as an official language meant social equality where a Northerner and a Southerner start at a same point in English...
Taken from wikipedia...
Interesting....but I did work with Indian (From India) engineers, officers and crew on ships for the last 15 years and found the North Indians had a better command of English. The Tamil speaking guys were more into Tamil songs, Tamil movies, Tamil Nadu politics (MGR, Jayalalitha, Rajini, etc)and actually did not mix well with the other indians. I got along with all of them as I spoke English, Tamil and Hindi.
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