Monday, October 25, 2010
The first time:
I left Malaysia in 1991 to pursue my Marine Engineering in Singapore and was off sailing all over the world for the next 11 years. Almost everywhere I went, I was asked the same question, " Are you indian?" and my response use to be..."No, I'm Malaysian. Not Indian."
It's now coming to the end of 2010 and it's been 5 years since I started working in KL for a government linked company. They have, time and again, made it clear to me that "No, you're not Malaysian. You're Indian."
Sad, huh???
IN MY OWN COUNTRY, I'M A FOREIGNER/NON BUMI/PENDATANG. EVERYWHERE ELSE, I WAS A PROUD MALAYSIAN!!!!!!!
Well, if I'm always going to be Malaysian INDIAN, and be treated "officially" 2nd class, I might as well be Australian INDIAN and be treated "unofficially" 2nd class, right????
I guess that is what it's come down to. Which is better, officially 2nd Class in your OWN country or "unofficially" 2nd class in another. (Australia, Canada, US, UK, NZ, etc, etc)
Well, my normal point form explains my reasons:
1. Better job with better salary.
2. Better quality of life for me & family.
3. Better education system.
4. Better future for my kids.
What will I miss when I go???
Food??? But I do cook pretty well so I doubt I'll be missing much.
Friends??? Well, we seem to be in contact electronically more than physically anyway so no worries there.
Family??? Guess this will be the hardest part especially for Maya who's so so close to her Tata & Ava. (Grandparents.)
If/When we head to Singapore.......45 min flight away.
If/When we head to Perth...........4 hours flight away.
I guess it was a sign....."WHEN THE BEEMER GOES....WE GO!!!" HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
Monday, September 20, 2010
Well....it's been a good 10 year partnership but every good thing must end....
This baby is on sale now!!

My tip top condition BMW dream car!!
A little history about this machine......
I had this obsession with BMWs when growing up and promised myself that "ONE DAY", I will own one.
With my sailing career doing well and the USDs rolling in, I decided to get my Beemer in 2000. The Millinium Beemer!! The idea was to get a second-hand unit but the interest rates were terrible while a new 2000 model E46 had 4.25% (And this was great in those days!!) financing. Price tag on the new E46.....a whooping RM 206,000!! (But only USD 54,200 la........that's what I said!!)
And in August 2000, I drove this baby out of the Auto Bavaria showroom. At age 28, it was the ultimate party machine........
For 6 months of every year from 2000 - 2005, it was my dads "pasar malam" and "around the town" car. (While I was away.) When I was back on holidays, it was my "clubbing" car!! It only did 30,000 kms in those 5 years!!!
It also spent a lot of time parked outside "Broadwalk" pub in Phileo Damansara!!!!
For the next 5 year, when I started working in KL, it was the daily commute from Klang to KL that raked up the miles......an additional 150,000 kms.
It was our wedding car 2007 and the car that brought Maya home from the hospital in 2008.
Now, in 2010,..... the babyseat just doesn't go with the 17" M3 sports rims, the rims won't handle the bumpy potholed roads of Dutamas/Solaris and eventually.....the space won't fit the "additional" family member expected in 2011!!
My honest opinion........it looks and rides better than it ever did but.....sadly......
All sentimental value aside, this machine will have to make way for something bigger and stronger........
So.......coming soon:

Hahahaha!!!!
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Our country is about to celebrate its 53rd year of independence. What does it all mean to me??? Well, I wouldn’t really know as I was not around for the “troubled” years. I didn’t see British rule, the fight for independence, MAY 13TH, the split with Singapore, communist insurgents, Japanese occupation, bombs, war, famine……nope….none of that.
My Malaysia was comfortable. Grew up in a nice neighborhood, nice house, nice car(OPEL CADET was a nice car back then!!! Hehehe!!), good food and a pretty normal life. Dad was a teacher (Government job!!) who felt every cent he made was owed to the kindness of the “government”. “We should be thankful for what we have. People in India are starving”, he used to remind us.
I went to school knowing there was a quota system. I knew my Malay friends will get better deals for education. I knew my Chinese friends had to do even better than me if they wanted to succeed. I spoke better English than Bahasa Malaysia, better Bahasa Malaysia than Tamil and better Tamil than a few “white” Indian friends!! We played together, studied together, ate together, hell… we did everything together. That was and still is my Malaysia. (Regardless of what the politicians try to tell me!!)
I left in 1991 to study in Singapore and it was a country that I never warmed up to. It was cold, heartless and just felt fake. It was like LEGO land. Just too perfect to be real. I knew why I was there and what I had to do. Get a good education. Period. I longed to leave as soon as I could.
From there, it was off to sail the seven seas!! Across the continents, across the oceans, across borders I went for 11 years. In all those years, in all those different countries, I was always Malaysian. “But you look Indian”, was the standard response. And there I was, explaining my Indian origin time and again but always insisting I was Malaysian and NOT Indian. My Malaysian Chinese buddies had to endeavor the same fate.
So for 11 years I fought hard to ensure I was respected as a Malaysian outside my country but only to realize when I came home in 2005, that I had to fight equally hard to be considered Malaysian at home!!!
Where have we gone so wrong???? I guess that long story is everywhere on the net so I’m not going to bother even remotely trying to explain that one!
I love this country not because it’s 1Malaysia……it’s my 1 and only Malaysia!!! Whatever ethnic background I may have, I know my stand. It may be different for some politicians but I’m surely MALAYSIAN FIRST, INDIAN SECOND!!
So to all my Malaysian friends, let the politicians say whatever they want…..This is our Malaysia so let’s make it the best it can be!!
SELAMAT HARI MERDEKA MALAYSIA!!! Someone still loves you!!
Tuesday, August 03, 2010
It's finally time to let my last remaining "toy" go....yup.....Nanda's all grown up and it's time for the family car to take over.

So what comes next???? Well... below are my options:
Option 1: Chevy Captiva - RM 160K, 2.0 Turbo Diesel 7 seater SUV

Option 2: Mitsubishi Pajero Sport - RM 166K, 2.5 Turbo Diesel, 7 seater "Bad Ass"!!

(Again, version above is what I'll make it look like!!!)
Option 3: Volvo XC 90 - RM 355K, 2.4 Turbo Disel, 7 seater "Luxury SUV"!!

(If I spend RM 355K on this, it gonna look pretty standard as I won't have any money left!!!)
If anyone has better rides to suggest or comments, let me know!!!
Sunday, July 04, 2010

FIFA has recently warned Brazillian players to comply with the FIFA ruling that does not allow t-shirts worn under the jerseys of the players to have religious, political or any other slogans or messsages.
Interesting.....
I really don't understand how GOD fits into the whole world of sports anyway.
Asamoah Gyan, the Ghanian striker was praising GOD for his winning goal againts USA in the post match interview. It was GOD that wanted Ghana to be in the last 8! It was GOD that made him shoot like that, he said. PRAISE THE LORD!! (GOD wasn't a USA fan, I gather.....!!)
What really suprises me is that, we don't see him in a similar post match interview where he says GOD made him miss the penalty and therefore he should not rely on this GOD anymore!!!
As i've always said, "GOD is a fantastic product as it can never fail!!"
Yup!! If your team wins...THANK GOD!!
If your team loses....PRAY HARDER AND GOD WILL REWARD YOU THE NEXT TIME!!!
Is there just no accountability for this GOD????
GOD that we spend time and money on.......a GOD that humans have gone to war and died for......a GOD that huge monuments, churches, mosques and temples have been built for......
And bookies have better control over match results!!!! (I love the Chinese for their simplicity....it's all about the money....!! Assuming that the bookies are Chinese la....)
Yeah! Yeah!.....heard all the "faith" arguments before but really....come on la.....
100,000 people in the stadium...all praying to their own GOD for a win.....somebody's GOD has to lose, right???
I honestly feel, if there is a GOD.........he/she/it really should/would be looking at more important things in this world rather that the games we humans play!!!
But if you have to watch the World Cup.......thank GOD for HD!!!! hahahahaha!!!!
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
I went to see this movie with Mary (Left Maya with our great babysitter, Kakak Mia) at GCS premier class in 3D.
WOW!! The special effects was seriously mind blowing and…….well….that’s it!
For the millions (Or was it billions??) that James Cameron spent on the effects, he could have spent a little more time and effort on the @#$@# story la!!
Let me give you the run down on the story…. (Since everyone I know has seen the movie and I’m only putting this post up now….shouldn’t spoil it for anyone, right?)
The American want to mine a particular metal on Pandora and don’t give a @#$% about the local tribe, the Na Vi. (Trying hard to mirror the conflicts in Afghan and the Iraqi war but failing miserably!) Then one particular disabled “low ranking” army guy decides to save this poor tribe from the “clutches of the oppressor” something along the “Last of the Mohicans” storyline. (Because of some….predictably…. GIRL!!)
The battle scenes are so so spectacular that the producers hope that they can blast logic out of your head and keep your brain disconnected from your eyes. If they did not manage or failed to do this, these are a few things that you may have thought about during/after the movie:
1. The humans cannot breathe on this planet. Shouldn’t the Na Vi look at messing with their air supply to get rid of them? Terrorist style? Rather than taking on the entire “high tech” arsenal of weapons which the American had, on a civil war approach!!
2. The NaVi took their attack strategy from a private in the army of the Americans???? Haiyo…at least if the $%#$$#@ was a general…ok la. And he was only there for a couple of days/weeks!! What the @!#$ does he know about your talking trees and “multiple connect” tails that can feel (This was a little corny to me too but ok la…) the dragons, etc??
3. The main battle scene was the attack on a huge tree where the radiation/magnetic flux prevented radar guided missiles to be used. This doesn’t mean that the Americans had to hover directly above the tree and drop the bomb from the back of a truck, right????? Even in medieval times there were catapults that could launch rocks some distance away la….AARRGGHH!!
Honestly, after the first 2 hours, the movie was getting painful to watch and at the end, as we left the theater, we said that this will be the last James Cameron movie we’re ever watching…unless he makes the Mahabharata in 3D…with 1 blue dude we all know soooo well!!! Hehehehe!!
Note : Avatar is derived from the Sanskrit word “Avatara” meaning incarnation. Cute huh?
Wednesday, January 06, 2010
2009 gone…..hello 2010!!
So…what was 2009 for me….well…..
1. Maya turned 1 year old in March.
2. Mary and Maya went off to Ireland for the summer..without me!!! (Which ensured that I was at Backyard on most days!!! hahahaha!!)
3. Became my own boss after my boss got suspended (until now still status quo) in July. Same salary though!!
4. Managed to sort out most of my credit card bills. (Still got some la…)
5. Bought a new ride for the wife. (Although the 4WD function was more in my interest for dive trips…hehehe!!) Still managed to keep the Beemer. (Hurray!!)
6. Certified 10 open water divers and 2 NITROX divers. (Not bad for a part time instructor.)
7. Got diagnoses with heredity high cholesterol so on 20mg of Lipitor every day.
8. Got my snoring/sleep apnea problem fixed with a throat operation that hurt like #@$% for 2 weeks!!
9. Spent our first family Xmas in Malaysia. (Last year was the “pandi” fest in Ireland!! Damn..I missed the black pudding and superb pints of Guinness!!) Was really fun here too with our own turkey and ham dinner.
10. Turned 37 on the 31st!!! (Uncle already la….)
Plan for 2010……
1. Get a better salary…hopefully ASAP.
2. Head off to Ireland for Mary’s sis wedding.
3. Have some good family holidays.
4. Have some good dive trips.
5. Fix up the condo with any money left over after doing the above….hahaha..which means this will happen in 2012!!! Hahahaha!!!
Saturday, September 26, 2009
CAMERON HIGHLANDS HOLIDAY!!
We headed out on a bright and sunny Saturday morning (A day before Hari Raya...hmmm...not too bright, huh??) and were pleasantly suprised by the smooth flow of traffic on the PLUS highway until we got to a "Hentian sebelah" or rest stop, near Tapah. Stuck here for an hour, just to move 200m!!! (Why Malaysians behave this way during the holiday season will be another posting!!) It was a better drive once we got off the highway and started our accend through the trunk road from Tapah to Tanah Rata. It was a great drive up to the top from there. (Maya slept through the entire winding climb!!)
We stayed at the Old Smokehouse Hotel (Pretty pricey but worth it la...) and it was impressive. Built in the old Tudor style with multiple fireplaces and an amazing garden. Actually, as I turned into the driveway of the hotel, it felt like I was somewhere in the UK. (Or pulling into the driveway at Mary's parents in Portloise in Ireland)

The garden was their best asset and Maya just ran around all day, even when it rained.
And then there were the scones!!! Emmmmmm...
The scones, jam and Devonshire cream were seriously the best I've ever had. (RM 8.50 for 2 of them.....good things never come cheap, do they?)
The temperature was a chill 18 Degree C so the fireplace was the place to hang out in the evenings. (The bar had a fireplace too!!)
Oh...almost forgot to mention a very important fact......the food is NON HALAL!! (So all you "bacon, eggs and bangers" people....the English breakfast is a REAL English breakfast!!)
We did do the regular tourist route of the tea plantation, bee farm, butterfly park, etc but we did some other pretty weird stuff like helping a Punjabi bunch of kids with their "amazing race" around Cameron Highlands, lunch at Starbuck's (Why??? Becos it's there??..duh.??) and a full blown "Mutton Peratel" banana leaf dinner!! (Maya loved the papadams!)
Overall, Cameron highlands still has it's charm as colonial hill station and staying at the Old smokehouse did indeed deliver that experience.
Thursday, September 17, 2009

Monday, July 20, 2009

Amrit got this DVD at the launch in Laundry, the Curve on Sunday. He brought it over to my place and we watched it over a couple of cold ones.
Damn! This was an “In your face” movie about racial tension in our schools.
It did play along the lines of the movie, Freedom Fighters. (I had an earlier post on that one) The plot revolves around 2 school gangs (Malay and Chinese with the lone Indian kid stuck in the midst.) and how they work out their differences by the strength of their similarities.
The script was well written and the acting of most of the cast was decent if not good. It is nice to see Malaysians finally saying stuff on the big screen which they say everyday at the mamaks and kopitiams.
It’s truly worth all 70 minutes of your time.
Let me know what you think if you do find time to catch it. To watch the trailer check out their site:
I think it’s available via download as well.
Sunday, July 19, 2009

Finally got around to posting our dive trip to Tioman. The weather was good and the diving was great. The duty free status of Tioman Island was the best!!! Hehehe!!
The trip started out with the 5 hour drive. KL – Ayer Hitam – Kluang – Mersing. No bemmer this time but instead we had the brilliant CHEVY CAPTIVA 4WD courtesy of my Indian expat buddy, Siva!!

We (Prem, Siva, Adam and I) spent the night in Mersing and crossed over to the island early the next morning. Diving began after lunch.
We did 2 dives on Friday and 3 on Saturday and my gang was certified!!

The dive the next morning was just Siva and me. Wonder where Prem and Adam were??? Zzzzzzzzzzz
Thursday, June 11, 2009

Managed to carve this holiday out of our busy schedule and we were off!!
The drive up north was scenic on a nice sunny morning and Maya being asleep all the way was a bonus. With daddy next to me (watching the speedometer) and the rest of the gang (Mom, Mary and Maya) bundled in the back, we still had a comfy ride. (Was quickly up to 140 – 160 km/hr when daddy wasn’t looking.)
We spend 2 days in Taiping and stayed at Kamalodge at the foot of Maxwell Hill. (or Bukit Larut) It had a nice pool and was just next to the Lake Gardens.
While my parents chilled in Kamunting, we (Mary, Maya and I) headed north to Penang for a night.



(Note the "licin" plates in the background!!)
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Monday, April 13, 2009

The reward…..

That SMILE!!!
My little "nutcase" (That's what I call her as she is usually hysterically happy to see me when I get home everyday!!) and all that she gets up to!!
I believe this parenthood thinggi is gonna be a great ride!!!
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
I was fortunate enough to be sent for free training by MISC/PETRONAS recently and I just wanted to share something pretty simple yet facinating.
The presenter made this statement about how people have varying reactions to taking on responsibility for their failed actions. These reactions fall into 4 categories in declining levels of conviction:
1. To Quit.
(Example: My job screwed up so I quit!!)
2. To Deny.
(Example: Who said my job's screwed up? it's fine.)
3. To Blame.
(Example: My job screwed up because of that other fella la!!!)
4. To Justify.
(Example: My job screwed up because of the economy la....it was sure to happen!!)
You can see this phenomenon in the newspapers with our politicians all the time.
It was also interesting when I actually looked at some of my friends and realised that most of the time, their actions fall into these 4 categories too.
When it comes to girlfriends, job satisfaction, salary or even life as a whole, they either QUIT, DENY, BLAME or JUSTIFY but seldom actually take responsibility.
The faults are blamed on God, the heavens and stars, fung sui, other people, fate, work commitments, money or lack of it, etc, etc but rarely do they say, "Hey, that was my fault so I'm gonna do something about it to fix the problem!!".
This post is just for you guys to think about the next time you have to explain a mistake or failure. Try not to rely on the 4 categories above and see if you can make a difference by your own actions!!
Let me know if it works!! Hehe!!
Monday, March 02, 2009
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
This is how I felt this morning after a chat with my wife on the current political situation in Malaysia.
She is a foreigner and it’s so hard to explain our sad and sick politicians.
What am I talking about? Well…..
1. The UMNO youth demonstrations with racist comments, shown live on Bernama TV.
Yup. They had signs “INI TANAH MELAYU, BUKAN TANAH SINGH!!” (THIS IS MALAY LAND NOT FOR THE SIKHS!!) in full view. Not even discrete!! She was asking me why the ISA was not used on these guys as it was inciting racial hatred.
2. Police reports made against Karpal Singh by UMNO youth all over Malaysia.
I remember trying to make a report about an accident in Klang at the PJ police station and the cop said I couldn’t. I had to report it in Klang. She wanted to know how these guys can make reports about something in Perak in another state?
3. MP in Kedah states his reason for quitting is that he and his family have been threatened by BN.
Police report? Protection from the police? No….he disappears. “If an MP can’t trust our police force for protection, what about us normal folk?” she asked.
4. UMNO Youth leaders say “By any means necessary”. Murder, Bloodshed, Genocide????
She asked me how far they would go. I’m afraid to answer. Really.
5. Police officers charged with murder have their faces covered ALL the time.
Since they’re handcuffed, I guess their police buddies helped them bundle up? I recall the police not allowing defendants in other cases to cover their faces. (Although most try sooooo hard with their T shirt, newspapers, etc.) “Even if they’re found guilty, what if they are secretly released and are back it the police force? Will anyone know, since nobody know what they look like?” she asked again.
She was comparing our current situation to that of countries in Africa....only good thing here is that we've got oil, so money and jobs are ok...for now.
As I was left with no answers, it really made me sad to think how far we've come socially and economically only to have daft politicians send us back to the racial riffs of the 60's.
If this is the path that our political scene is taking us, I’m really getting worried for the safety of my family and friends.
Will all my vocal friends disappear too?? Will supporting a certain party be considered treason?
Will the "Truly Asia" slogan means we become like other Asian countries like Cambodia, Burma, Laos and Phillipines with incapable and corrupt leaders?
Monday, February 02, 2009
I’ve been hearing this issue of Maths and Science being taught in English and it’s getting pretty tiring.
I really don’t get these education ministry fellas…
Let me break it down in my usual point form on what the problem is and how to tackle it:
The problem
1. Level of proficiency in English in Malaysia is on the decline.
2. Children in rural areas don’t speak English at all.
3. Lack of teachers who speak good English.
The solution
1. GET BETTER ENGLISH TEACHERS!!
2. TEACH ENGLISH MORE OFTEN!!!!
I mean, why mess about with Maths, Science and other subjects. Just put in more hours per week for English lessons.
During my backpacking days, I’ve met so many backpackers in India, China and Indonesia who were teaching English as part of some volunteer program. Get these guys over here la!!!
Leave the primary schools subjects in Malay while concentrating in making the kids really good at English as a subject on it's own and when they get to secondary school, teach the technical subjects (Maths, Science, Chemistry, Physics, Biology, etc.) in English.
Then we’ll finally get somewhere!!
Tuesday, January 20, 2009

I watched this movie over the weekend and was truly impressed.
The cinematography (correct ah my spelling????) was superb, great storyline and very "indian" in it's coincidences!!
The visuals of the slums of Mumbai was as real as I remembered them when I was there years ago. The background of the begging children and their operations were so real that I actually had trouble sleeping that night.
It had all the ingrediences of a great Hindi movie (Love story, fights, drama, vulgar language..in Hindi, of course) and I guess bagging a couple at the Golden Globe Awards didn't hurt.
Do get your hands on this movie. It's worth your time. (And the "DVD 9" is pretty good, if you know what I mean!! hehehehe!!)


